Small progress.
Using this settings:
-Dsun.java2d.opengl=true
-Dsun.java2d.d2d=false
leads to
this.
Using just settings:
-Dsun.java2d.d2d=false
shows error message that there is problem in 3D rendering system initialisation and SH3D is closed.
Using settings:
-Dsun.java2d.d2d=false
-Dcom.eteks.sweethome3d.no3D=true
finally makes the SH3D working and no UI glitches so far. Disadvantage is the missing 3D overview and rendering possibility.
So it definitely seems like problem in Swing components rendering using Direct3D.